Thanks Snodderly... you know, we have alot in joint mortgages, so its a bit more than a few memories, lol! Insurance policies, tenants, gas certificates, tax issues.. I dont think it means a thing in fact, he is just being avoidant. Good point about the convo/photos.. I should just let it go (let him go).
Thanks Whatever for your post.. "You're grieving as so many of us here are. It's a difficult process".. thats the beauty of this website. Losing a partner in such a sudden, devastating way, as many of us did, with little warning IS like a death. My C and recent therapist both said its likely to take 2 years to get over it.
Thanks for the gal compliments! It took me a whole year to get unstuck, to get moving, I was paralysed with loss, I couldnt see ANY future for myself. I still cant see me dating, but at least I finally got a life !
So other than sailing and mortal combat and a gym workout, tommorows GAL is starting a martial art!! And then its the biggie Wednesday.. hopefully learning to sea kayak (indoors!) which I have wanted to do for 2 years! Meanwhile.. I STILL havent written my dissertation and am in danger of failing my course. Eek!
