Cowgirl, did you ever see that complaint coming? It is laughable and makes me worry about your Cowboy's intellect. To shift the conversation to feed costs was an interesting and odd tactic. He makes himself less credible and a little ridiculous to your loyal fan club when he makes goofy accusations.
Neither you nor I have good access to financial records yet we are both obligated for 'better or worse'. Lately, I am assuming things are slightly better, but not having the facts keeps us off balance. You have more to lose. My house and land are already lost....
Don't get defensive or show too much anger. Just keep insisting on getting things straight. I have turned up the heat {literally! and figurativly} as well...