Short and sweet...continue to do JUST THAT. You. Personally, I find it psychologically abusive to continue to tell an 18 year old that you are leaving...and then....DON'T. What does that teach him? Or...should he see his mom say enough is enough?

Limbo and lingering.....sucks.

Focus on all that is you. Review whatever you think were YOUR contributions to this...and make those changes. Then, I urge you to do what my consultant told me yesterday:

Quote:

You could only function with the tools that you had at the time. Learn from it. Move on with it as a lesson. If you live in the past and live with blame and negativity, that is the direction your life will take.


FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;