I'm so far behind on the threads it's untrue. I hope you're OK. I can understand you being angry- not sure I have any good ideas or suggestions other than time, time and more time maybe. I'm sure all the experienced posters here will have lots more ideas (and be better informed since I've missed so much).
Anyway, I just thought I'd stop by and say thanks for the FB message. I'm OK- thinking mainly, and busy trying to sort work things out.
L. xx
PS. Ali- if you read this, I did come and visit your thread but it had locked so I couldn't leave my mark!