I really want to detach emotionally. I do really good in not calling or texting him unless its an emergency. My hard time is when he gets bored or drinking he begins to contact me and bait me. That is when I start my backwards spiral mentally.
I have had a few turn of events in the past week (in my sich) that will be making my detachment harder.
Thank you for this club...I could use it!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!