Agreed and I have a long post that I plan to you 25. I will also post what the counselling call was about.

Text to my W today. I approached her this morning, told her my office was closed for the holiday and I 'would like' some time with the kids tomorrow...perhaps take S8 to the movies. She replied in the affirmative. Wrong or right, I decided to act on her verbal communication since she shut the door on it last week:

Quote:

XXX....I am happy that you are finally getting time to go out and discover that which brings you contentment. I am also happy that in spite of the closed door option that you chose several days ago that we can talk even if on a limited basis. We have two children here that we have to raise and we cannot present a unified front to S8 and D5 to keep them from playing us against each other, nor discuss medical, educational and other issues or problems that might come up if we are only speaking by text. Enjoy your family today. FIB


Trying to lead.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;