So h is home again today. Thought he might go somewhere to watch the football game, but maybe not. I have been doing my own thing. Very little interaction.
Trying to decide how to handle this situation. He left for 5 days and now is back. He said he wanted to do it slowly for son's sake and not just walk out for good one day.
But I feel I have to say something because this is not good for our son, I dont think. H told son aa year ago he is leaving, didnt, told him two months ago, didnt (I asked him to think about waiting til after the holidays, told son three weeks ago, left for two days the following week, then 5 days this week. So maybe he is trying to do it slowly.
I think if he does it again this week, thats it. Otherwise my son will never be able to work through this situation. He will just keep thinking h is not really leaving for good. Son and I both need to go through all the phases of gried and we cant if h keeps coming back.
So, I guess I will wait to see what happens this week. And then I need to tell him to sh*t or get off the pot.
Meantime, I am going out again for the day. Needed to work more on my GAL.
