Thank you--yes, I am. Trying to fight off a cold, so far fairly successfully.
My new/old friend is dealing with WAW syndrome. His wife sounds like she's gone off the deep end, long ago. He has always been a kind and gentle person, and I feel so bad for him. She moved out in the spring, is moving resolutely forward with divorce, and is making his life miserable--but he's still in love with her and unable to let go. It amazes me how these situations always seem to play out in exactly the same ways, with minor differences in names and details.
As for me, dropping the rope has been a difficult but very peaceful thing. I don't need the pain any more, I guess. And that's a very good thing.
Nine months ago today. And a new hoosiermama has been born.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012