Hey Lucas, good to meet you. I am with you on the beer, hence I will take a Guinness Please.........
Nesting, jeesh.. .I am pretty sure this idea was formulated by some dude who just wanted things simple in his divorce and probably was loaded and had tons to lose.
I completely get it during separation, but once it roles into divorce I am not sure that it works. Now if you both wanted a divorce I could maybe see the possibility, but when one party is not for divorce and is an unwilling participant it simply opens the doors for years of bad feelings. The biggest problem is once you explain the plan to the kids then you have to deal with the massive guilt that comes along if down the road it isn't working for you.
So my advice, you need to do some very serious soul searching and figure out what you can truly live with. This is your life and you have to be the one to be accountable for the end result here.
Also, do not let her bitch at you about taking your time now with your L. You have every right to protect yourself. No guilt in that.
