Being content for now.

[Bworl]

As usual, when we finally get healthy again and stop hanging on every day bringing hope for reconciliation, look who shows up again.


You've been down this road many times Kissak. The thing I remember about your threads in the past was the many times your husband would return home, only to leave again. You finally broke that pattern, and I think it was very good for you.


So here's my advice.


I'm assuming you still love your husband and would like to see the marriage restored. If not, just ignore my ramblings.


You tell the man that you love him and would be happy to think that the two of you could rebuild a good marriage.


But you tell him that you only want him back if he has made the decision that he wants back for good. That he is committed, not for a couple weeks or months, but for good.


And you tell him that if he really wants this, that he knows full well what kinds of things he needs to do to make it happen. Reaffirm that your love for him is still inside of you and that you can see a future for the two of you.


Then reaffirm to HIM that it's going to take an effort on his part to convince you that this is not just another pop in.


Blessings,

Bill