Giving space for a woman:
No R talk
No touching
No kissing
No lurking when she is on the phone or 'puter
Be nice, but not too nice
Don't try to solve her problems, this is her job
Don't offer unsolicited advice
If she goes in another room, don't follow
If she is watching something you hate on TV, find another TV
If she is on the couch, sit in the chair
Sounds like avoidance? It is. But that is what she is asking you for right now. Your greatest gift is to give it to her.



I've been following this to a T, W is being nice when she responds, but It feels awkward to me. I feel the tension as there used to be more interaction between us.


M-50
W-43
D-20
S-11

Together-17
Married-15
Bomb- 11-2-08

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