Matilda,
My understanding is you find a sponsoring group that's visiting a country you want to go to. You travel with the group, and then you split up into your host families.

I think as long as we're pursuing something my W wants to do, her behavior will be fine, for the most part.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching