Good luck Pearl; it sounds like you have resolve. I've posted to your thread.
Rob, wow, a big 180 not to text. You'll be trying to keep that up. Let us know how it goes.
Welcome, Single Dad, I hope that JD and god's insights re kids help. I can imagine your d wanting to hear good night from you, if not daily, then on a regular and predictable basis.
JD and god... as always, thanks for your encouragement and support.
In my sitch, I'm on day 9. My h is going away this week and I'm not ready for contact before goes, so my nc will likely be as long as 3 weeks.
I've been thinking about detachment. The next detachment challenge for me will be staying in contact and remaining detached (that is, staying within and with myself no matter what is going on around me).
