I was thinking - lucky H, when I saw he only owes £9k, but wow, Michelle you made me feel better being honest about your debts! I have huge student debts...doesnt include mortgages though!
My ex also had about 15K in savings before he left me and I think he has blown alot of it. He says he's moving to a shared house because he cant afford his apartment rent, so I assume his savings have gone.
Seems par for the course with these WAS. Do you think you and your ex will be friends? Or you not gonna try?