Hey Michelle, Looking at the big picture you are doing great! I am impressed by your GAL, your R, & your motivation towards your bar exam.
93k! Hopefully that will provide some good motivation for you. In a strange sort of way. Your H's 9k, well some people when they are depressed spend money. I agree it is mind boggling!
Good luck w/your studying!!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Seriously? $93,000 in debt????? That includes the house, right? Heavens sakes! I'm $9,000 in credit card debt and feel like I'm drowning. I can barely pay the minimums. K - Do you mean you are more than $93,000 Euro in debt?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I was thinking - lucky H, when I saw he only owes £9k, but wow, Michelle you made me feel better being honest about your debts! I have huge student debts...doesnt include mortgages though!
My ex also had about 15K in savings before he left me and I think he has blown alot of it. He says he's moving to a shared house because he cant afford his apartment rent, so I assume his savings have gone.
Seems par for the course with these WAS. Do you think you and your ex will be friends? Or you not gonna try?