This is a great list. Some of these things I have been doing, some I've been thinking about but hesitated to do. I think that was because I wasn't in the right frame of mind yet. I feel like I'm ready to detach now so have a better place to start from.
I spend a good amount of time on the phone with friends. Usually there is some R talk involved so I'm in another part of the house, but also some outbursts of laughter. I had a friend over once but BF bolted from the house and met OW for dinner then lied about it. That's why I've been spending evenings in so as not to give him more opportunity/reason to go out with OW. Guess I just need to not give a cr*p what he's doing with his time.
I do need a place to go in the evenings. I was just talking to friends about a neighborhood bar we went to once. I think I can go there and just hang out by myself, it's kind of a dive with regulars. Should be able to nurse a drink there for a while.
I'll start when BF gets home tomorrow.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
