Thanks to all. My STBXW went out again tonite..stings but I am OK.

I did something 'unusual' for myself. I paid for a telephone consultation.

.....But not from a DB coach...from my 'guru'. ...not to 'save my marriage'...but how to deal with this changeling....to save my kids....and me. To follow...

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;