I am an absolute believer in the things I have learned here. They work! Thats why I was wondering if I should encourage W to participate here as well. I wouldnt want her to waste time on something I didnt think had any merit.
She's not 'divorce busting'. You are. She is trying to 'return'. She needs therapy to help her.
If she were to join 'db' she'd open a can of worms that she is not ready to deal with.
