No, I am just saying that as time goes on, with the research you do and the advice you get from this board, you will learn what to watch for. For example, I can tell you that in the beginning, I could not understand why I was so depressed in the beginning of every month, and attributed it to the frame of time that H dropped the bomb. But then I realized that my reaction was because H tended to back off the first week of the month, and I wouldn't hear from him. And finally, I realized that is the time he gets paid, and that he was stressing, and it had nothing to do with me. I learned to just leave him alone.
You will learn what your W's triggers are. she will not tell you, but you will learn them. You just have to pay attention. read everything you can get your hands on regarding MLC.
Keep busy. Remember you were someone before the bomb, and you will be someone after. By focusing entirely on your W and M, you will not be doing either one of you any good. You need to focus on w hat you wish to change about yourself.
Mach likes to say to create goals and a mission statement. You might start there...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
