Bill - I felt the ultimatium was necessary. I thought things were getting better and then they quickly got worse. All I can think was enough is a enough.
WCW - I'm not an angry person. I've put up with all her mistakes and I figured I was going to loose her. So I decided to raise my voice and use a few 4 letter words. I didn't do any name calling, I was descriptive about my anger. Yes, I will use it wisely, so wisely that I won't do it again.
Jack - Don't worry about me. My dad beat my mom when I was a child. They use to fight and he use to hit her. After 14 years of marriage they got D. Even though I was young I knew what he was doing was wrong. I have vivid images of mom with a bloody nose and me trying to take care of her. I shared these experiences with our MC and he told me not to worry, that that's not my personalility type.
