But if I don't see any progress soon, we'll be having that talk. I know I can't keep living this way for ever. It's not healthy for me or my kids. >>>>>>>>>>>
Hope, I keep following your thread with my fingers crossed that at some point YOU are going to be the one to make things change. You posted the above quote on May 11 2008. That is a LONG time to tolerate a situation you know is toxic for you. She had an affair, hasnt really ever apologized for it and refuses to do anything you have asked of her.
Please stop the friendly chit-chat. Let her get her own stinking latte. I think the trips you are taking her on are big mistake as well. You need a vacation, a vacation from her!
If you could ever really just let her go and show what her life will be like without you in it..she might just start chasing you for once.
