Sandy, OMG, thats almost an exact line from a conversation I had with my H. I had asked him if he had any intentions of returning to our R in the future because I was going to start looking at all my opportunities instead of filtering opportunities based upon being in a committed R. He commented that it seemed like I already had some "opportunities" in mind. I assured him that I didn't have anything specific, but that I would be with him until I wasn't. This was REALLY early on.
Its kind of scary, as my H is returning this evening after being gone for almost a week, I am not exactly dreading his return, but it has been very peaceful just being here without him. I'm afraid that the detachment I have searched for to end the emotional suffering is leading me to feel exactly like he says he does. Something to discuss with C on Monday. I'm sure this is a completely normal reaction, but it makes me a little sad to realize I don't feel the same.
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
