I am always trying to be the best person I can be. But sometimes one's ego and pride might distort perception. Once I had the blinders removed, I knew what I needed to do to improve and I took to it with gusto.

And like with anything else, when you start seeing results, it encourages you to keep going.

I am an absolute believer in the things I have learned here. They work! Thats why I was wondering if I should encourage W to participate here as well. I wouldnt want her to waste time on something I didnt think had any merit.


Me: 37
Wife: 40
Son: 7yo
Son: 18 mo
Bomb: 12/31/07
Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now