So this is our day: H woke the kids up, both sick with colds, at 6:15 and took them to an 18 mile race he did out of town somewhere. It was 24 degrees, and D9 said she was sick & sneezing the whole time. Then took them to lunch and dropped them off. I don't know how he could consider having them sleep over and him running a race and leaving them alone or with OW any type of quality time. The kids are too sick to go to church with him tomorrow, and he also didn't make any plans to see the kids on Monday which is a holiday for him. I'm surprised that he seems to be backing off seeing the kids right before the D, but I guess maybe he realized he's not cut out for primary custody and/or the OW prob. doesn't like to be around my kids that much. I know S15 doesn't like her, although he's a quiet kid so I'm sure isn't real obvious about it.
I have felt for a long time, that a lot of our WAS, mine included, are messed up, and many of us would be better off without them. They are the ones that are throwing away their family and unconditional love and all that. But maybe this gives us a chance to have that with someone else I guess. I think I sound low but I'm not really, just taking off the rose-colored glasses. Karen
