I am trying to do the right thing. I have already forgiven her for everything I felt she did wrong (perceived and factual) and now its all about rebuilding trust in her.

But of course, I am still pretty wounded and my mind isnt 100% right. She has shown plenty of patience, understanding, and sincere regret.

Her recent actions are not the root of our issues. I created a WAW and take ownership of everything I have done to help create this situation. I have taken sincere efforts to improve myself. She see's that and in turn is taking complete ownership of her 'acting out' behavior. She didnt even realize that was what she was doing until she has looked back with a

But we still realize how delicate our situation is and taking things day by day, trying not to get too far ahead of ourselves. But for the 1st time in a LONG time, we both seem to be on the same page and seem to be reconnecting much quicker than I dreamed we would.

This site has helped quite a bit. If I didnt find this place, I seriously doubt any of this would be happening now.


Me: 37
Wife: 40
Son: 7yo
Son: 18 mo
Bomb: 12/31/07
Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now