Well handled. Sounds like you used a soft touch, which is good. I'm really glad she took it well.
Yes, she will feel foolish. OFTEN. Just VALIDATE, VALIDATE, VALIDATE when she expresses these feelings to you. It's ironic that waywards feel stupid when they're trying to loyally rebuild their marriages, and NOT when they're cheating, but it is what it is.
Be sure to THANK her for her efforts; just don't overdo it.
