Silvagod - what about conversation initiated by me - but about the general progress of our D3, child raising, then general question about how things are going - how's job, etc.

Or should any contact have a real purpose - issue with D3, etc. and if WAW brings up general discussions, then go with the flow.

Q: Does WAW have to lead with general generic discussion, or can generic talk be initiated by DA/LBS and see if WAW takes the bait and is interested in talking more ? i.e. can DA/LBS initiate a friendly call - or do we have to wait for WAW to call - unless real need to call arises ?

I guess I'm trying to get some slippery room to start up friendly conversations, even if it's once every two weeks. It's getting awefully quiet... I am surprised at how little we actually do talk even when we have a D3. (Originally, we would have a daily call usually just to say goodnight to D3 - that ended when I learned about OM - as I didn't want to call thinking he may be there. That goodnight call has stopped.)


Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

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