DanceQueen is right on target. Women feel attraction to strong confident men. google 'david cunningham attraction' and check out his stuff. He has a free daily email that is very insightful.
You're in a good spot because SHE is taking action. And it wasn't a 'sudden' turnaround, it's been building up. You just didn't see it.
That is really interesting, I did not think about the possibility it may have been building up. Looking back, I still cant see it. But women are pretty mysterious! lol
And she really is taking action - every day since that fateful day she has surprised me.
For example; I got a buddy who just won a job with a nationally signed death metal band. I am not a big death metal kinda guy, but always support my musician friends ambitions.
She found out they were hosting a benefit concert on Valentines Day and asked me if we might go together.
She HATES death metal. And to give up a traditional romantic Valentines Day in favor of a freakin death metal concert (of all things) spoke volumes to me!
I told her she didnt need to do that. But she came back explaining why she wanted to go when we both know she would never be caught dead at a death metal show.
She really is trying!
:-)
Me: 37 Wife: 40 Son: 7yo Son: 18 mo Bomb: 12/31/07 Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now
