Your WAW needs to know that you love her in her own mind and heart - I think that is very important. If she doesn't know that then she needs to know you love her. If you rarely told her before then a 180 would let her know you love her.
But depending on where she is in her state of mind and where you are in your state of mind. Telling her you love her now is seen as clinging, last ditch effort to "get back what you want", not what she wants.
If she feels out of love with you already, then you are just pushing her farther away.
At this point, love is just being there for her when she wants it, not being demanding or pushy, giving her what she wants above all else.
And during that time work on understanding what happened and make yourself a better man.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day
