I would guess that if you have to ask the question, then you DO know. Sort this out now because if you don't, it will be years of resentment whether you win him back or not. And, maybe, not resentment, but unnecessary debt that you can circumvent now. If he wants to be immature about finances then too bad, someone has to take care of it and if you're still within a legal marriage then somehow you have to sort it out otherwise it's just as much your burden as his. Whether he gets upset or not. What's that saying? When the wolf come in through the front door, love runs out the back.
Take care, y'all. I truly admire those who keep ranches and farms running despite the cost. We city/town dwellers need to know you're out there.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
