Well... Do you have any friends you could go out with? If not, what about going out with your son? You guys could go to dinner and then to a movie? If I was closer, I'd take you out!
Definately don't spend it alone. The other thing you could do is if you have a friend that lives out of state, maybe you could meet them half way and go out? Just a thought.
How has she been with you otherwise?
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