Hey guys,

Since the bomb dropped, I have found this site to be a source of excellent information, comfort, and inspiration. I also have felt some kinship in being able to relate to people, knowing I am not alone and my problems in life arent so unique after all. Its been extremely helpful

And I think my W could find this place beneficial as well and I am considering asking her to register and participate on this site.

But she is going to likely search my username and read all my posts, and I am not sure if I am terribly comfortable with that. Many things I said was in the confidence she would never see them. It was for me, not her (cause she was WAW and wouldnt have come here anyway)

What do you guys think?


Me: 37
Wife: 40
Son: 7yo
Son: 18 mo
Bomb: 12/31/07
Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now