Rebuilding trust - what are reasonable requests?

[EnergyAZ]

That's true. I wish I didn't feel like I had to be up her ass about things and long for the good ol days where I had total peace of mind about her. And I am working to get there. But I need to see a full commitment from her, full dedication and loyalty to me, nothing to hide from me, willing to ceremonially/symbolically 'destroy' these men and eradicate them from her (our) life forever.

I think I will feel a lot better about things and enable me to rebuild that vital trust in her much quicker. These people could not possibly be worth the family and life we worked so hard to build. And we can make new friends together if its just about being social.

Thanks for making me feel like I wasnt a paranoid freak.