Working on a friendship

[Belle]

Hey Ms M!

Thanks for stopping by!!

You are from WI - me too! I live in IA now b/c of my H's schooling but I am orginally from Waukesha and lived in Milwaukee for 10 years.

Anyway, I know the snooping is not good for me personally. And I know I can't control him. But what I can control is my actions and responses when I know that he is continuing to be with her. Does anyone think that this should affect the way I act towards him? Or the amount of hope that I have for our M?. I'm not sure.

I'm sorry to hear you are on the sinking M ship. But certainly that doesn't mean that you cannot give good advice!

I know I need to do what's best for me but the problem is I'm trying to determine exactly what that is!

I have not taken his phone calls and it doesn't do much at all. No response, really. Well, actually, this week I did that and then he called me the next morning at 8am. I asked him "Why so early?". He replied that he drove past the house and saw the lights on, so he knew I was up. He was worried b/c I told him there was this ex-con at my church who's been flirting with me and he said that I had him freaked out that the ex-con was holding me hostage in the basement of the house. So I'm not sure really if not answering his phone calls does anything to progress our R.

I guess I will try to come up with some 180s.....

Thanks Ms M.