Working on a friendship

[MsMelancoly]

Hi Belle, Just thought I would stop by & say hello. You ask some tough questions about which path to take. My advise, would be to stop the snooping, so to speak. For me anyway, I found it as a form of control, in trying to control my own fears. In the end it was only hurtful to me. That is one step in detaching, because you cannot control what he does.

Do you listen to him without giving advise? That is one of my downfalls. You still have a line of communication open, which is good. In Michele's other book I'm reading it says for men actions speak louder than words. How about not taking all his phone calls & be mysterious???

I too am a strong independent women .... in the end you have to do what is best for you. I'm probably cannot give much good advise, as I'm on the sinking M ship.

Can you evaluate what you have done so far & come up with some 180s to try or different cheesetunnels to go down??? Just some thoughts.