Absolutely not as in "Do I like being that way"? In giving her space, I've been trying to. What does that mean. I live in the same house, so I have to speak to her. I don't ask about what's going on between us. If she wants to do something I say OK. She is in the lead now. I don't know what else to give her in the space department. I ask if I can help with chores and such, she says no usually. I hold up what I've been doing in the past ...