That's a very good question. I am not sure that I have the answer to it. I know that I am trying to reorder my life w/o H and it is a good feeling.

I have had the feeling that I will give up and move on and H will then come back. Complications....

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D