Ron, she may not come out right away and tell you, but she will. It may be in subtle hints, or outright. the key is listening. It is a tough road, and a long journey. You are in fora roller coaster ride that you have never experienced before. Prepare to throw up...but you will start to feel better.
My C gave me a great technique on detaching. Picture yourself from the inside out, looking at an entirely different couple in the same sitch. Think of what you would do in that guy's position. Is he being too clingy? Too needy? Too "romantic"? Then, do the opposite. Detaching is a wonderful thing. I still love my H as much as I ever did, but I also know this is his fight, not mine.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
