Your not back at square one. It may feel like it, but it is a part of the process. It seems like both our wives swing back and forth so fast.Hey they are confused, that is a whole heck of a lot better than if they were just indifferent and totally done. Can you imagine if they got together and hung out man? That would be kind of funny.
We both have to remember that it is not us. When they do get close, it makes them think "hey I like this guy he is fun kind and caring, why do I feel this way then??" "could it be me??" OH NO they can't have any of that. How could it possible be them? So they bolt again, and again. Just try to keep from swinging with them. Take care of you, and remember she will most likely swing back again.
