Ok So I guess today I am going to be taking the next "card" out of this shaky house of cards...
After W Aunts party I am going to tell Wife that I am planning on informing Oldest D about our pending separation. Seems to be getting closer now. NOBODY knows we are having problems. At least it has not been talked about. This will be the first time that at least I am admitting out loud that there is a problem.
I am not going to mention the affair. I am just going to tell her that Mom and I are having problems, We tried to work them out this past year but I have just come to the conclusion that mom just does not want to be married anymore. If Daughter asks for more information I will just tell her she needs to ask you Mom I can't speak for her....(D is 25yo)
On the brite side......
Son and I are planning on going to the movies.. something called "the dog hotel?" and we may do some more fishing this weekend..
Ok My B-Day in next month. Last year I went to las Vegas (by myself) and had an ok time but I vowed NEVER to spend my B-day alone agian. Opened my cards from across the pond and got one phone call from a fellow. (can you call a female a Fellow?) DBer wife did not call.
So now I am trying to think of something to do this year. Any sugjestions??
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know