Hi Craig, have not talked to you in a good while. Have you ever posted to AmyC? Or if you have read any of her background, it would help you. She was here somewhere. She doesn't post all the time like she did at one time. She was the one in the MLC and has been trying for years to draw her H back into the M. She would be a good person to talk to and maybe give you some pointer about how a woman in MLC thinks, etc.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!