I just have to say that I wish I had even a fraction of your patience!!
I am glad to see you growing in strength and confidence. You deserve it!! You are a remarkable man! To have stood for your M as long as you have, with virtually none of your emotional needs being met, and still maintain the sense of humor you have, I think, says absolute volumes about your character!! You are definitely in a class of your own when it comes to faithfulness!
Your W doesn't know how infinitely lucky she is to have man like you in her corner......but we on this board do!! Your care and compassion and patience is a real gift, and you deserve a life partner who truly appreciates you for the priceless gem you are!!
I sincerely hope your W wakes up soon, and realizes what beauty she has in you, but if she doesn't, then don't continue to settle for less than you deserve!
((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd