Keep things light and go have fun w/BF21 or "Skywalker." Don't let yourself get hung up on the age thing b/c you aren't looking to get married, but are looking to enjoy life a bit.
I like the feeling of a bouyed spirit in your recent posts, now I'm hoping to read you are continuing to act on it and keep active and living for you.
Your focus seems to be returning to where it needs to be - completely on Ali - so now let's work to keep it there.