I too will be going to Al-Anon on Tues. I have to say I am scared of just sitting there and crying the entire time. I hope to understand why and how he can change so fast and be a person that I don't know. I now hate the saying "I have to follow my heart". That is the last thing my H said to me before he drove off. That was before he said, "no I won't give you a hug. I dont think A#$@ (ow) would like it too much. She doesn't even want me to talk to you." I remember I told him she had better get over it cuz I was his W so to f##kin bad.
Well i just wanted to say, let me know how your mtg goes and I will let you know about mine. If you want to.
H-41 (alcoholic) Me-38 D-13 SD-10 T-6yrs M-4.75yrs Bomb-10/4/08 Moved in w/OW 11-13-08