Hi Mel,

I too will be going to Al-Anon on Tues. I have to say I am scared of just sitting there and crying the entire time. I hope to understand why and how he can change so fast and be a person that I don't know. I now hate the saying "I have to follow my heart". That is the last thing my H said to me before he drove off. That was before he said, "no I won't give you a hug. I dont think A#$@ (ow) would like it too much. She doesn't even want me to talk to you." I remember I told him she had better get over it cuz I was his W so to f##kin bad.

Well i just wanted to say, let me know how your mtg goes and I will let you know about mine. If you want to.


H-41 (alcoholic)
Me-38
D-13
SD-10
T-6yrs
M-4.75yrs
Bomb-10/4/08
Moved in w/OW 11-13-08

Stacy

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