well I'm in it for the long haul. I think that's what makes us real men. The ability to stand up and protect our family. Our integrity is what makes us the better option.
It's like in the Dark Knight when Batman has a chance to let the Joker plunge to his death, but instead saves him because it's the right thing to do. No matter how bad or evil we see our spouse , we believe in them still and in our relationships
This is a quote from a male who posts on this site. It is how I would like my H to feel. Will it ever happen , I dont know.
Today I feel abandoned by H. Is it his fault ... No I had an A. I have no right to ask the above of him.
Is it his choice .....Yes.
I hurt, my kids hurt, our families hurt and our friends hurt.
Whose fault is the pain - mine initially by having an A and Hs now as he puts himself ahead of his family. Do I blame him ... NO. He does what he feels he needs to do to protect himself. He would of not been in this position if I had never had an A.
Why is it that some men can decide to protect their family and other dont. Who is right nd who is wrong . I dont know but I do think that if I was forgiven then H heart would open up again and I would notbe posting this
The hurt stops for the kids and family when I move on. My kids are torn between their love for their father and the love for their mother. They hated seeing me crying and starving and on sleeping pills. It all had to stop and I had to choose that. I do not take pills anymore, I do not cry and I eat better.
