Thank you MWG. I did tell h that ex was calling, he seemed fine with it. He calls to talk with s20, but he is usually at work or sleeping, so he usually chats with me for a few min.
Nothing major, just stuff that is going on in his life. It's like chatting with an old friend. It's weird though I do remember getting so uptight about all the things my ex h did 14 years ago, now it's just a shrug oh well.
Maybe this is my reminder to not sweat the little stuff with h too.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"