Hi Txmom {{{hugs}}} sorry you are having a tough night. I know the weekends hit me bad also. All I do is imagine my H out and about with Ow living this different life.

Wouldn't it be easier just to harden our hearts like they have.

I will tell you I am sure your H is not having it easy also, trying to take care of his children and babysitting for a 25 year old also. You know she does not want to "share" with your children for your H's attention. It will get old for her pretty quick. Think back to when you were 25 -- would you want to be tied down to some older guy with kids? It will lose the appeal for her. I bet she will hang around till after Valentine's Day and then dump him. (remember when we had to have a date for the New Year and V. Day?)

You are a bright, smart, beautiful woman. Don't ever forget it.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09