Techguy Got to love the cougars. Have to admit I am having fun getting out. Given me lots of confidence which seems to rub off in other asspects of my life. I have gotten so used to wearing nicer clothes that I don't like wearing my t shirts and jeans any more. And a nice modern cologne does wonders. This GAL is great fun. Next is my own place then the moon.:) The X called me again today. Asked if I was coming by today to pick up some of my stuff. Told her no, that the soonest I could get there would be Tues. Funny to her the pause in her voice as she tried to figure out why I wasn't chomping at the bit to come out. I think when I put her off like that she gets a bit confused and doesn't know how to take it. When I don't jump to her every need she doesn't know what to do. She has been so used to me doing everything and anything that she wanted. Now the power, if you want to call it that, is in my court. Odd to see how this all works. Once you have that "ah ha" momment things start to take a different path. Hopefully the one that leads to the goal that the other not so effective paths had in mind. I wish I would have had that 2x4 hit me months ago. But no use living in the past. I think I have "got it" and will keep going from here. My hope is X will see all this, become curious and maybe have a softening of the heart towards me. If not I going to make somebody a great "man". Have a great weekend. B
