this morning I woke up to a text message from my step-son, the 15 year old with adhd that my wife basically blames me for all of his problems and says that the arguments we got into are one of the reasons she left. He text me to ask if I could pick him up from school at noon since they got out early. Thinking my wife had something to do with this I called her to tell her that I couldn't do it because I had a dr. appointment for my back. She laughed and said that she had mentioned this was one of the times that she needed my arround to him as a sort of joke I guess. I didn't think it was really funny. Me and him did but heads quit often before she moved out so I was glad that he still looks to me for help. Maybe she will see that he still loves me and knows I will be there for him, which I will regardless of me and her. It made me feel real good that he still knows I will try to help him out whenever I can!