D wasn't part of your vows?? I think maybe my H had D in the silent vows he said in his head during our ceremony :-) just kidding... it sure seems that way right now. my new approach is watchful waiting. i can only communicate with my H if he contacts me


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09